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What your Apartment says to Women

What your Apartment says to Women

212Access May 15, 2013 0

By Stacy Liberatore  For most guys, the goal for the night is to take a girl back to his place. I’m a bartender. Trust me, I see it all night long as guys try

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Why You’re Single in NYC

Why You’re Single in NYC

212Access April 29, 2013 0

By Stacy Liberatore New York City is all about cycles. People move in and out, depending on where they are in life. When you first move to the city, we are young, wild and

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Favor with the Bartender

Favor with the Bartender

212Access March 2, 2013 0

By Stacy Liberatore Why do some guys get free drinks and shots at the bar while others can’t even buy their own drink? Don’t assume the VIP is a regular or even friends with

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Overheard at the Bar: What Women Say

Overheard at the Bar: What Women Say

212Access February 22, 2013 0

By Stacy Liberatore If you’re a straight guy, pretty much everything in life revolves around women. It’s why you go to the bars. To meet single women. Women don’t work like that. We really

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How to Fight with the other Sex

How to Fight with the other Sex

212Access February 22, 2013 0

 By Stacy Liberatore As a bartender, I usually have a front row seat to couples fighting.  I’ve seen it all, heard it all: name calling, screaming matches, slaps across the face. I’ve even had

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Why Technology Ruined Dating in NYC

Why Technology Ruined Dating in NYC

212Access January 17, 2013 0

By Stacy Liberatore The days of walking to the door with flowers in-hand to meet your date are over.  Being wined and dined has become something of the past. Dating now consists of happy

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Keep her Interested… even in NYC

Keep her Interested… even in NYC

212Access December 14, 2012 0

By: Stacy Liberatore New Yorkers are notoriously quick to move on. We have the attention span of a gnat. If you don’t keep us interested, we move onto a new person. And even if

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Top-10 Things to Never Say to your Bartender

Top-10 Things to Never Say to your Bartender

212Access December 5, 2012 0

By: Stacy Liberatore  Look before you leap and think before you speak, especially if you are talking to your bartender. As a bartender, I can tell you we hear stupidity every night. Some nights, the

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Bartender Secrets: Top-10 Ways to Succeed at the Bar

Bartender Secrets: Top-10 Ways to Succeed at the Bar

212Access November 27, 2012 0

By Stacy Liberatore New Yorkers like to drink, but maybe it’s for all the wrong reasons. A bar is the most common place for the opposite sex to meet.  Admit it, 85 percent of

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