Ask the Bartender »
What your Apartment says to Women
212Access May 15, 2013 0By Stacy Liberatore For most guys, the goal for the night is to take a girl back to his place. I’m a bartender. Trust me, I see it all night long as guys try
Read More »Why You’re Single in NYC
212Access April 29, 2013 0By Stacy Liberatore New York City is all about cycles. People move in and out, depending on where they are in life. When you first move to the city, we are young, wild and
Read More »Favor with the Bartender
212Access March 2, 2013 0By Stacy Liberatore Why do some guys get free drinks and shots at the bar while others can’t even buy their own drink? Don’t assume the VIP is a regular or even friends with
Read More »Overheard at the Bar: What Women Say
212Access February 22, 2013 0By Stacy Liberatore If you’re a straight guy, pretty much everything in life revolves around women. It’s why you go to the bars. To meet single women. Women don’t work like that. We really
Read More »How to Fight with the other Sex
212Access February 22, 2013 0By Stacy Liberatore As a bartender, I usually have a front row seat to couples fighting. I’ve seen it all, heard it all: name calling, screaming matches, slaps across the face. I’ve even had
Read More »Why Technology Ruined Dating in NYC
212Access January 17, 2013 0By Stacy Liberatore The days of walking to the door with flowers in-hand to meet your date are over. Being wined and dined has become something of the past. Dating now consists of happy
Read More »Keep her Interested… even in NYC
212Access December 14, 2012 0By: Stacy Liberatore New Yorkers are notoriously quick to move on. We have the attention span of a gnat. If you don’t keep us interested, we move onto a new person. And even if
Read More »How to Know She is into You
212Access December 5, 2012 0By: Stacy Liberatore Dating is a guessing game in New York City and as a single woman, I can tell you we all look for signals or signs that will tell us whether the
Read More »Top-10 Things to Never Say to your Bartender
212Access December 5, 2012 0By: Stacy Liberatore Look before you leap and think before you speak, especially if you are talking to your bartender. As a bartender, I can tell you we hear stupidity every night. Some nights, the
Read More »Bartender Secrets: Top-10 Ways to Succeed at the Bar
212Access November 27, 2012 0By Stacy Liberatore New Yorkers like to drink, but maybe it’s for all the wrong reasons. A bar is the most common place for the opposite sex to meet. Admit it, 85 percent of
Read More »












