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How to Kill a First Date

How to Kill a First Date

212Access August 4, 2015 1

How to Kill a First Date By Stacy Liberatore If you want to get a second date, you need to learn how to get past the first. As a bartender, I have observed many

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Top-10 Conversation Starters

Top-10 Conversation Starters

212Access August 13, 2013 3

By Stacy Liberatore The difference between a stud and a dud begins and ends with conversation. You can be a good looking guy but if you only know how to grunt, women will lose

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What your Apartment says to Women

What your Apartment says to Women

212Access May 15, 2013 Comments Off on What your Apartment says to Women

What your Apartment says to Women By Stacy Liberatore  For most guys, the goal for the night is to take a girl back to his place. I’m a bartender. Trust me, I see it

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Why You’re Single in NYC

Why You’re Single in NYC

212Access April 29, 2013 Comments Off on Why You’re Single in NYC

Why You’re Single in NYC By Stacy Liberatore New York City is all about cycles. People move in and out, depending on where they are in life. When you first move to the city,

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Favor with the Bartender

Favor with the Bartender

212Access March 2, 2013 1

Favor with the Bartender By Stacy Liberatore Why do some guys get free drinks and shots at the bar while others can’t even buy their own drink? Don’t assume the VIP is a regular

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Overheard at the Bar: What Women Say

Overheard at the Bar: What Women Say

212Access February 22, 2013 Comments Off on Overheard at the Bar: What Women Say

Overheard at the Bar: What Women Say By Stacy Liberatore If you’re a straight guy, pretty much everything in life revolves around women. It’s why you go to the bars. To meet single women.

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How to Fight with the other Sex

How to Fight with the other Sex

212Access February 22, 2013 1

How to Fight with the other Sex  By Stacy Liberatore As a bartender, I usually have a front row seat to couples fighting.  I’ve seen it all, heard it all: name calling, screaming matches,

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Why Technology Ruined Dating in NYC

Why Technology Ruined Dating in NYC

212Access January 17, 2013 Comments Off on Why Technology Ruined Dating in NYC

By Stacy Liberatore The days of walking to the door with flowers in-hand to meet your date are over.  Being wined and dined has become something of the past. Dating now consists of happy

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Keep her Interested… even in NYC

Keep her Interested… even in NYC

212Access December 14, 2012 Comments Off on Keep her Interested… even in NYC

By: Stacy Liberatore New Yorkers are notoriously quick to move on. We have the attention span of a gnat. If you don’t keep us interested, we move onto a new person. And even if

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